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Pesa Shayo

Pesa Shayo is a devoted husband, father, and visionary behind Live Your Best Marriage—a movement designed to help couples thrive without relying on constant conflict or costly, drawn-out counseling. After discovering that traditional therapy didn’t serve his own marriage the way he had hoped, Pesa and his wife set out to create a better path for other couples—one rooted in faith, practical wisdom, and everyday connection. Driven by his passion for digital marketing and authentic relationship-building, Pesa now helps families rediscover love and purpose using modern tools, clear communication, and biblical principles. Whether he's volunteering at church, enjoying a quiet walk, or brainstorming new ways to empower marriages online, Pesa brings heart, hope, and strategy to everything he does.
Anchor Objects: Little Things that Trigger Big Love

Anchor Objects: Little Things that Trigger Big Love

A coffee mug from your first trip. The playlist from your wedding week. The keychain your spouse bought when money was tight. Small objects can carry big emotions. In this […]

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When Hope Feels Impossible: Why Future-Visualization Backfires (and What Works Instead)

When Hope Feels Impossible: Why Future-Visualization Backfires (and What Works Instead)

Sometimes “just picture a better future” makes you feel worse—because your brain can’t connect the dots from here to there. That’s not a failure; it’s biology. In this cornerstone, we’ll […]

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The Reflection Habit: How to End Each Week with Perspective

The Reflection Habit: How to End Each Week with Perspective

Some weeks drain you so completely that all you can see is what went wrong. But couples who pause to reflect—before rushing to fix—recover faster. The Reflection Habit is a […]

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The Hope Loop: How Remembering Yesterday Fuels Tomorrow

The Hope Loop: How Remembering Yesterday Fuels Tomorrow

Hope isn’t built from prediction—it’s built from pattern. When life feels uncertain, imagining a better tomorrow can feel hollow, but remembering how God has shown up before changes everything. The […]

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Calming anxiety in marriage by recalling past grace and trusting God’s continued presence.

Past Grace, Present Strength: How to Borrow Faith from What You’ve Survived

You’ve already made it through things you once thought you couldn’t. That’s not coincidence—that’s testimony. Every couple has a record of grace hiding in plain sight: the hospital stay you […]

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From Friends to Forever: Using Your Origin Story to Stabilize Today

From Friends to Forever: Using Your Origin Story to Stabilize Today

Every couple has an origin story—the first laugh, the awkward text, the early sacrifice. Those aren’t trivia; they’re anchors. This post helps you retell your beginning in a way that […]

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