Repair Attempts

Jul 9, 2015 · Pesa Shayo · 1 min read

Pesa Shayo is a husband, father and author.

As the co-founder of Live Your Best Marriage, Pesa brings a blend of practical and easy-to-follow steps rooted in Biblical principles to his guidance.

He's been happily married for over 22 years and devotes a great deal of time to his children.

Pesa enjoys going for hikes with his family.

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