If driving has wind resistance, marriage has life resistance—fatigue, schedules, misunderstandings, and the thousand tiny frictions that slow closeness. The Headwind Principle says you won’t reach “good” by aiming at […]
Pesa Shayo
Pesa Shayo is a devoted husband, father, and visionary behind Live Your Best Marriage—a movement designed to help couples thrive without relying on constant conflict or costly, drawn-out counseling. After discovering that traditional therapy didn’t serve his own marriage the way he had hoped, Pesa and his wife set out to create a better path for other couples—one rooted in faith, practical wisdom, and everyday connection.
Driven by his passion for digital marketing and authentic relationship-building, Pesa now helps families rediscover love and purpose using modern tools, clear communication, and biblical principles. Whether he's volunteering at church, enjoying a quiet walk, or brainstorming new ways to empower marriages online, Pesa brings heart, hope, and strategy to everything he does.
Stop Blaming the Weather: Owning Your Route Through Resistance
If you’ve ever yelled at traffic for making you late, you already understand how we treat marriage when life doesn’t cooperate. Weather happens; routes are chosen. Instead of arguing with […]
When “Normal” Isn’t Neutral: Everyday Friction That Drains Intimacy
“Normal life” is not a steady baseline—it’s a mild headwind. Tiredness, chores, cultural differences, and mental bandwidth quietly tax connection. The couples who thrive aren’t magically spared from this wind; […]
Life Happens—Love Plans: Building Slack Into Your Connection
Amazon delays, sniffly kids, late meetings—none are “attacks,” they’re the weather. Strong couples don’t waste energy arguing with the weather; they plan for it. Life Happens—Love Plans means you add […]
Aim for Stars, Land on Trust: Overshooting Goals to Reach Great
If you aim only for “fine,” resistance will make it “meh.” The days get long, someone gets sick, a package runs late, the sitter cancels, and suddenly your “good enough” […]
Raise the Floor, Not Just the Ceiling: Minimums that Protect Marriage
Big dreams are exciting; strong minimums are protective. Raise the Floor, Not Just the Ceiling is a simple shift: define non-negotiable practices that still happen on bad weeks—one date night, […]