Patterns don’t appear from nowhere; we co-create them with our tone, timing, routines, and media diet. If you’ve ever wondered why the same argument replays in different outfits, a systems […]
Pesa Shayo
Pesa Shayo is a devoted husband, father, and visionary behind Live Your Best Marriage—a movement designed to help couples thrive without relying on constant conflict or costly, drawn-out counseling. After discovering that traditional therapy didn’t serve his own marriage the way he had hoped, Pesa and his wife set out to create a better path for other couples—one rooted in faith, practical wisdom, and everyday connection.
Driven by his passion for digital marketing and authentic relationship-building, Pesa now helps families rediscover love and purpose using modern tools, clear communication, and biblical principles. Whether he's volunteering at church, enjoying a quiet walk, or brainstorming new ways to empower marriages online, Pesa brings heart, hope, and strategy to everything he does.
Patient Leadership: Keep Moving When Timelines Don’t Match
Change in marriage rarely arrives at the same hour for both people. One of you may be ready to clean up patterns, repair trust, and build new rhythms; the other […]
Trigger to Teacher: Turn Defensiveness into Direction
If the phrase “it takes one” makes you bristle, pay attention—that feeling is a clue worth listening to. This guide shows how to transform that flash of defensiveness into a […]
Lead Without Permission: Go First Without Becoming a Doormat
Going first doesn’t mean doing everything. It means leading without permission—modeling the change you want to see, inviting participation, and holding kind limits so progress doesn’t depend on perfect cooperation. […]
Beyond 50/50: A Better Plan Than Keeping Score
If you’ve ever caught yourself thinking, “This would work if we both gave exactly the same,” you’re not alone—and you’re not wrong to want fairness. But waiting for exact equality […]
It Takes One: Why One Spouse’s Choice Can Start the Turnaround
You don’t need perfect agreement to begin healthy change. In many marriages, one spouse can start by shifting tone, habits, and boundaries—and the system will respond. It Takes One is […]