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Pesa Shayo

Pesa Shayo is a devoted husband, father, and visionary behind Live Your Best Marriage—a movement designed to help couples thrive without relying on constant conflict or costly, drawn-out counseling. After discovering that traditional therapy didn’t serve his own marriage the way he had hoped, Pesa and his wife set out to create a better path for other couples—one rooted in faith, practical wisdom, and everyday connection. Driven by his passion for digital marketing and authentic relationship-building, Pesa now helps families rediscover love and purpose using modern tools, clear communication, and biblical principles. Whether he's volunteering at church, enjoying a quiet walk, or brainstorming new ways to empower marriages online, Pesa brings heart, hope, and strategy to everything he does.
Aim for Stars, Land on Trust: Overshooting Goals to Reach Great

Aim for Stars, Land on Trust: Overshooting Goals to Reach Great

If you aim only for “fine,” resistance will make it “meh.” The days get long, someone gets sick, a package runs late, the sitter cancels, and suddenly your “good enough” […]

Posted on 08/18/202508/25/2025 by Pesa Shayo Continue reading
Raise the Floor, Not Just the Ceiling: Minimums that Protect Marriage

Raise the Floor, Not Just the Ceiling: Minimums that Protect Marriage

Big dreams are exciting; strong minimums are protective. Raise the Floor, Not Just the Ceiling is a simple shift: define non-negotiable practices that still happen on bad weeks—one date night, […]

Posted on 08/17/202508/25/2025 by Pesa Shayo Continue reading
The Power of Redundancy: Why Three Touchpoints Beat One Grand Gesture

The Power of Redundancy: Why Three Touchpoints Beat One Grand Gesture

One monthly “special night” gets obliterated by one bad week. Three weekly micro-touchpoints—date, check-in, and a mini-ritual—create resilience through redundancy. The Power of Redundancy is a simple design choice: build […]

Posted on 08/16/202508/25/2025 by Pesa Shayo Continue reading
From Intention to Intensity: Matching Energy to the Marriage You Want

From Intention to Intensity: Matching Energy to the Marriage You Want

Good intentions are beautiful—but they underperform against real resistance. Busy calendars, tired bodies, missed texts, and small misunderstandings act like a headwind on your best days. From Intention to Intensity […]

Posted on 08/15/202508/25/2025 by Pesa Shayo Continue reading
You’re Not Just Growing for You—You’re Growing for Your Family Legacy

You’re Not Just Growing for You—You’re Growing for Your Family Legacy

Your Growth Sends a Message to Everyone Watching Every choice you make in your marriage tells a story—and it’s not just your spouse who hears it. Your kids, your extended […]

Posted on 07/11/202508/06/2025 by Pesa Shayo Continue reading
Marriage Isn’t a Tug-of-War—It’s a Team Sport

Marriage Isn’t a Tug-of-War—It’s a Team Sport

Introduction: You’re on the Same Side Marriage is not a competition. It’s not about keeping score or proving who’s right. At its core, marriage is about partnership—two people who have […]

Posted on 07/10/202508/06/2025 by Pesa Shayo Continue reading

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