Amazon delays, sniffly kids, late meetings—none are “attacks,” they’re the weather. Strong couples don’t waste energy arguing with the weather;…
If you aim only for “fine,” resistance will make it “meh.” The days get long, someone gets sick, a package…
Big dreams are exciting; strong minimums are protective. Raise the Floor, Not Just the Ceiling is a simple shift: define…
One monthly “special night” gets obliterated by one bad week. Three weekly micro-touchpoints—date, check-in, and a mini-ritual—create resilience through redundancy.…
Good intentions are beautiful—but they underperform against real resistance. Busy calendars, tired bodies, missed texts, and small misunderstandings act like…
Your Growth Sends a Message to Everyone Watching Every choice you make in your marriage tells a story—and it’s not…
Introduction: You’re on the Same Side Marriage is not a competition. It’s not about keeping score or proving who’s right.…
Why Waiting to Grow in Marriage Doesn’t Work Every strong marriage has moments when one spouse sees a need for…








