Here is the truth nobody told you when you married someone from a different culture: Cross-cultural marriage is not the problem. Disunity is. Yes, you two speak different heart languages. […]
Christian marriage
The United Front: The Missing Skill in Cross-Cultural Christian Marriage
You can love Jesus. You can love each other. You can even love each other’s cultures. And still feel like your marriage is being torn down in slow motion by […]
How to Set Boundaries Without Being “Disrespectful”
If you grew up in a culture where honoring parents and elders was a serious value, even reading the phrase how to set boundaries without being disrespectful can make your […]
The Loyalty Ladder: God, Spouse, Kids, Then Family
If you grew up in a culture where family is everything, even reading the phrase The Loyalty Ladder God Spouse Kids Then Family can feel wrong. You might think: “God, […]
What to Do When Family Criticizes Your Spouse
Few things cut as deeply as hearing someone in your own family criticize your spouse. It might sound like: “Why does he always talk like that” “Are you sure she […]
The Loyalty War: Choosing Your Spouse Without Losing Your Family
If you are in a cross cultural Christian marriage, you probably know The Loyalty War very well, even if you have never called it by that name. It sounds like […]