If you aim only for “fine,” resistance will make it “meh.” The days get long, someone gets sick, a package runs late, the sitter cancels, and suddenly your “good enough” […]
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The Power of Redundancy: Why Three Touchpoints Beat One Grand Gesture
One monthly “special night” gets obliterated by one bad week. Three weekly micro-touchpoints—date, check-in, and a mini-ritual—create resilience through redundancy. The Power of Redundancy is a simple design choice: build […]
From Intention to Intensity: Matching Energy to the Marriage You Want
Good intentions are beautiful—but they underperform against real resistance. Busy calendars, tired bodies, missed texts, and small misunderstandings act like a headwind on your best days. From Intention to Intensity […]