Few things cut as deeply as hearing someone in your own family criticize your spouse. It might sound like: “Why does he always talk like that” “Are you sure she […]
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When “Respect” Becomes Control in Marriage
There is a special kind of confusion that happens when people tell you to be a “respectful” husband or wife, but the way they define respect slowly shrinks your voice, […]
When Your Spouse Feels Second to Your Family
Few things cut as deeply in marriage as the feeling that your spouse does not come first. If you are honest, you may already know this is an issue. Maybe […]
Stop Letting In-Laws Drive Your Marriage
Let us be honest. Your in-laws may not be living in your house, but it sometimes feels like they are riding in the front seat of your marriage. They have […]
When “Respect” Becomes Control in Marriage
There is a special kind of confusion that happens when people tell you to be a “respectful” husband or wife, but the way they define respect slowly shrinks your voice, […]
“Respect” vs Control: How to Tell the Difference
If you grew up in a culture that talks a lot about respect, you probably know this line very well: “You must respect your elders.” “A good wife respects her […]