Here is the truth nobody told you when you married someone from a different culture: Cross-cultural marriage is not the problem. Disunity is. Yes, you two speak different heart languages. […]
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The United Front: The Missing Skill in Cross-Cultural Christian Marriage
You can love Jesus. You can love each other. You can even love each other’s cultures. And still feel like your marriage is being torn down in slow motion by […]
What to Do When Family Criticizes Your Spouse
Few things cut as deeply as hearing someone in your own family criticize your spouse. It might sound like: “Why does he always talk like that” “Are you sure she […]
The Loyalty War: Choosing Your Spouse Without Losing Your Family
If you are in a cross cultural Christian marriage, you probably know The Loyalty War very well, even if you have never called it by that name. It sounds like […]
Stop Letting In-Laws Drive Your Marriage
Let us be honest. Your in-laws may not be living in your house, but it sometimes feels like they are riding in the front seat of your marriage. They have […]
Honor Your Parents Without Betraying Your Spouse
If you grew up in a culture where honoring parents is sacred, even reading the words Honor Your Parents Without Betraying Your Spouse can make your chest tighten. Because very […]