Faithfulness isn’t a single promise made years ago—it’s a daily pattern of turning toward. Fidelity in practice looks small and steady: a quick repair after a sharp word, transparent calendars, […]
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Tear Down to Build Up: Retire What No Longer Works
You can’t build new trust on old habits. Tear Down to Build Up is a simple way to retire the phrases, places, and patterns that keep you stuck so respect […]
How We Built This (Mess): See Your Marriage as a System
Patterns don’t appear from nowhere; we co-create them with our tone, timing, routines, and media diet. If you’ve ever wondered why the same argument replays in different outfits, a systems […]