If you’ve ever yelled at traffic for making you late, you already understand how we treat marriage when life doesn’t cooperate. Weather happens; routes are chosen. Instead of arguing with […]
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Aim for Stars, Land on Trust: Overshooting Goals to Reach Great
If you aim only for “fine,” resistance will make it “meh.” The days get long, someone gets sick, a package runs late, the sitter cancels, and suddenly your “good enough” […]
The Power of Redundancy: Why Three Touchpoints Beat One Grand Gesture
One monthly “special night” gets obliterated by one bad week. Three weekly micro-touchpoints—date, check-in, and a mini-ritual—create resilience through redundancy. The Power of Redundancy is a simple design choice: build […]
From Intention to Intensity: Matching Energy to the Marriage You Want
Good intentions are beautiful—but they underperform against real resistance. Busy calendars, tired bodies, missed texts, and small misunderstandings act like a headwind on your best days. From Intention to Intensity […]