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Pesa Shayo

Pesa Shayo is a devoted husband, father, and visionary behind Live Your Best Marriage—a movement designed to help couples thrive without relying on constant conflict or costly, drawn-out counseling. After discovering that traditional therapy didn’t serve his own marriage the way he had hoped, Pesa and his wife set out to create a better path for other couples—one rooted in faith, practical wisdom, and everyday connection. Driven by his passion for digital marketing and authentic relationship-building, Pesa now helps families rediscover love and purpose using modern tools, clear communication, and biblical principles. Whether he's volunteering at church, enjoying a quiet walk, or brainstorming new ways to empower marriages online, Pesa brings heart, hope, and strategy to everything he does.
Fidelity in Practice: The Everyday Opposite of Cheating

Fidelity in Practice: The Everyday Opposite of Cheating

Faithfulness isn’t a single promise made years ago—it’s a daily pattern of turning toward. Fidelity in practice looks small and steady: a quick repair after a sharp word, transparent calendars, […]

Posted on 10/20/2025 by Pesa Shayo Continue reading
Tear Down to Build Up: Retire What No Longer Works

Tear Down to Build Up: Retire What No Longer Works

You can’t build new trust on old habits. Tear Down to Build Up is a simple way to retire the phrases, places, and patterns that keep you stuck so respect […]

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How We Built This (Mess): See Your Marriage as a System

How We Built This (Mess): See Your Marriage as a System

Patterns don’t appear from nowhere; we co-create them with our tone, timing, routines, and media diet. If you’ve ever wondered why the same argument replays in different outfits, a systems […]

Posted on 09/17/2025 by Pesa Shayo Continue reading
Patient Leadership: Keep Moving When Timelines Don’t Match

Patient Leadership: Keep Moving When Timelines Don’t Match

Change in marriage rarely arrives at the same hour for both people. One of you may be ready to clean up patterns, repair trust, and build new rhythms; the other […]

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Trigger to Teacher: Turn Defensiveness into Direction

Trigger to Teacher: Turn Defensiveness into Direction

If the phrase “it takes one” makes you bristle, pay attention—that feeling is a clue worth listening to. This guide shows how to transform that flash of defensiveness into a […]

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Lead Without Permission: Go First Without Becoming a Doormat

Lead Without Permission: Go First Without Becoming a Doormat

Going first doesn’t mean doing everything. It means leading without permission—modeling the change you want to see, inviting participation, and holding kind limits so progress doesn’t depend on perfect cooperation. […]

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