If you’ve ever caught yourself thinking, “This would work if we both gave exactly the same,” you’re not alone—and you’re not wrong to want fairness. But waiting for exact equality […]
Pesa Shayo
Pesa Shayo is a devoted husband, father, and visionary behind Live Your Best Marriage—a movement designed to help couples thrive without relying on constant conflict or costly, drawn-out counseling. After discovering that traditional therapy didn’t serve his own marriage the way he had hoped, Pesa and his wife set out to create a better path for other couples—one rooted in faith, practical wisdom, and everyday connection.
Driven by his passion for digital marketing and authentic relationship-building, Pesa now helps families rediscover love and purpose using modern tools, clear communication, and biblical principles. Whether he's volunteering at church, enjoying a quiet walk, or brainstorming new ways to empower marriages online, Pesa brings heart, hope, and strategy to everything he does.
It Takes One: Why One Spouse’s Choice Can Start the Turnaround
You don’t need perfect agreement to begin healthy change. In many marriages, one spouse can start by shifting tone, habits, and boundaries—and the system will respond. It Takes One is […]
The Headwind Principle: Why Good Marriages Need Extra Thrust
If driving has wind resistance, marriage has life resistance—fatigue, schedules, misunderstandings, and the thousand tiny frictions that slow closeness. The Headwind Principle says you won’t reach “good” by aiming at […]
Stop Blaming the Weather: Owning Your Route Through Resistance
If you’ve ever yelled at traffic for making you late, you already understand how we treat marriage when life doesn’t cooperate. Weather happens; routes are chosen. Instead of arguing with […]
When “Normal” Isn’t Neutral: Everyday Friction That Drains Intimacy
“Normal life” is not a steady baseline—it’s a mild headwind. Tiredness, chores, cultural differences, and mental bandwidth quietly tax connection. The couples who thrive aren’t magically spared from this wind; […]
Life Happens—Love Plans: Building Slack Into Your Connection
Amazon delays, sniffly kids, late meetings—none are “attacks,” they’re the weather. Strong couples don’t waste energy arguing with the weather; they plan for it. Life Happens—Love Plans means you add […]